—-No, don’t you worry, this post is not about viagra or any drugs that will enhance anything, it’s about  how to deal with the certain situation when you think you can’t or don’t want to do it anymore.  Sometimes husband and I are talking about us getting old and when are we gonna stop doing the deed, most of the time we ended up talking about his dad and his step-mom, you know we wonder (but without malice) and asked ourselves if we think they are still active because of their age, honestly, I don’t know the answer, I wish I knew, sometimes he jokingly told me that maybe I can asked them (yeah right!  :mrgreen:  ). My  Filipina back in US friend whom I “Ate” (sister) told me once that she can’t keep up with her husband anymore especially when she experienced vaginal dryness and lost the interest most of the time, good thing was, her husband is very understanding and very supportive and he never force her to do something about it since she said it’s a natural part of being menopause. I hope my husband will be the same when that happen to me.