I’m glad and thankful to be independent, yes, I’m a SAHM and I wouldn’t trade it for anything but It doesn’t mean I have to neglect my own freedom. Don’t get me wrong, I love my family, my boys, and my husband, but it doesn’t mean that my world have to evolved around them all the time, I’m sure they will hate me for that :D . I still want to do something for myself, for my own worth.  I know my husband doesn’t mind having his own “me time” either, and the boys, they are growing fast right before my eyes, as much as I want to be with them all the time, I know sooner than later,they will have their own life and before I knew it,they want to move out.

I don’t understand other married woman who depend on their husband for everything.  I guess,I owed it to my mom,she taught us the value of being independent even if we get married,she said that our husband will respect us because of that instead of relying on them all the time.

I’m thankful that God gave me a husband who value the meaning of it and respect me with every decision I make. I know as husband and wife,we have to make all the major decisions TOGETHER, but there are certain situation that sometimes, I just have to rely on my own instinct and whenever I give a good judgement, it adds up to my self confident. When we got married, I know I have to live my life  WITH him not FOR him. :yes: